ClubFEM NYC kicks off 2010 with two workshops with Jay Wiseman!

Wait Til I Get My Hands On Him

• Wednesday, Jan 13th, 7pm, West Village Manhattan
• Some women say the way to man's heart is through his stomach, but Dominant women know better! A Women-only workshop on how to do a truly wicked hand job. Covers male sexual anatomy and physiology, several different stroking techniques, different types of lubricants, and masturbation goals. Also covers hygiene and safer sex issues, aftercare, timing, tempo, and advanced techniques. Includes a section on fiendish masturbation games to really mess with your boy's head!
• Please bring a dildo (or a cucumber ;) to play with and a bottle of wine or a munchie
• RSVP on our FetLife Event Page Here

Tying With Authority

• Thursday, Jan 14th, 7pm, Chelsea Manhattan
• A relaxed and informal introduction to basic rope bondage in a class for Women. Good for both beginners and experienced Ladies. Do you want to tie up your boy but aren't sure how to go about it? Have you ever attended a bondage demonstration of spectacular techniques but returned home with no idea of how to tie them yourself?
  Come spend some entertaining and educational time with one of the world's top BDSM educators, the author of "Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook" published by Greenery Press, and the producer of the excellent video "Jay Wiseman Teaches Basic Rope Bondage" to learn some simple, easy to learn, and widely usable bondage techniques.
• Bring your own rope, or borrow some at the workshop. If you wish to buy rope, we recommend nylon rope in four 6' lengths and maybe a 50' length of 5/8" to 3/4" thick solid braid from Home Depot, or MFP rope from Rainbow Rope.
• Bring a boy to tie up, or our single Dommes should let us know when you RSVP and a very willing rope bottom will be provided for you from our eager-to-please ClubFEM boys. ;)
• Cost: $15 per person
• Location: At Purple Passion, 211 West 20th Street, New York, NY 10011 - Come early to shop, they are giving all workshop participants 20% off that night!
• RSVP required on our FetLife Event Page Here

About Jay Wiseman

Jay Wiseman has over 35 years of experience in BDSM and was one of the early pioneers and builders of the BDSM community in the San Francisco area. He continues to be heavily involved, both in his local area and nationally, as an SM author, educator, mentor, workshop leader, video producer, expert witness, and activist. Noted for being both an exceptionally knowledgeable and highly entertaining presenter, he is very much in demand and has presented on various aspects of relationships and sexuality in more than 60 cities in the United States and Canada. In 2007, Black Rose presented him with the Vaughn Keith National Educator Award.

Jay is the author of the frequently recommended book "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" and the founder of the publishing company that later became Greenery Press. His book, "Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook" is widely hailed as the book that sets the standard of fundamental knowledge for this practice. His instructional videos on rope bondage are excellent resources for both beginners and experienced bondage practitioners. His most recent book, "The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies" provides crucial information to both players and dungeon monitors. He is currently working on a number of books and videos.

Jay holds a first-degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do, is a member of Mensa, and lived in San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury district during the Sixties. A former ambulance crewman with years of experience and recipient of the highest Red Cross commendation for emergency action, Jay now teaches classes in basic and advanced emergency medical care for BDSM clubs and other groups. After receiving his law degree in 2005 and passing the bar exam in 2006, he sometimes works as a part-time law school professor. His areas of special legal interest include providing legal support for alternative communities, teaching bar exam preparation, search and seizure law, and conflict resolution.

His website is, predictably, www.jaywiseman.com